Yes, my wish for the New Year is that everyone will live a blessed and fulfilling life!
As always, things happen for great reasons … so a blessed life to me does not mean that only good things happen and everything goes smoothly – it means to me that we learn and grow from small hiccups and face greater tasks with confidence & gusto and lead a progressive life mentally & emotionally … spiritually, I have to work at it (I will give “physically” a definite miss).
I did not and will not make any new year resolution. Since beginning of 2008, I have set my mission and vision in my life. Every steps along the way, I remind mindful that my actions contributed to my life vision. I became happier … that said, I have always been easy go lucky, I have always been pretty happy. Think my name helps, my Dad gave me the name and he forgot about my Chinese name.
In 2008, a major breakthrough was that I learnt to let go of negative energies – things and persons that bogged me down, however infrequent. Some things really bothered me but I didn’t know then how to release, they just popped up along the way in my lives. I still remembered it just happened when I was in the bus on the way to the culinary institute in August, … as usual I was day dreaming, and I just felt ready to move on and live my life. That was when I shared my journal entries and my life moves on. When things happen and bothered me, I learnt to “whoosh” it off – somehow it helped and it worked. Simply that.
For the new year, I am just going to live life … continuously learn and grow as an individual, as a partner in my blessed marriage, as a family with my loving parents, sis & David, bro & Pei San and the 6 beautiful children … as a worthy friend to worthy friends.
Laugh, Love & Live Life.
